Puberty Blues: message to girls still the same

A still from the Puberty Blues remake.When I read Puberty Blues by Gabrielle Carey and Kathy Lette at 14, I was shocked by what girls got up to in the big city.

The sex, drugs and disobedience seemed as foreign to me as riding a horse for an hour to visit your friend would have been to them.

The decadence of life in Cronulla astounded my country-town mentality back in 1979 and I actually couldn’t believe my mother was letting me read a book so risque and rude.

Sex, back then, was something that only the “bad” girls at school did – and then it wasn’t until they were at least 16 or 17, which seemed like a lifetime away even when I was 14.

Reading about Debbie and Sue’s slide into the darker side of life was frightening and although their story was just that – a depiction of life in the city suburbs in the 70s – it also made me realise how easy it was to make a bad decision and the implications it could have on the rest of your life.

The social mores of the times were like a slap in the face as well. The chauvinism, the lack of respect for women, the abuse of power, weren’t something I had experienced as a young teenager in Wagga. Sure, boys were boys and girls wore dresses, but growing up in a rural community where everyone was required to dig in meant the chicks could ride a motorbike just as well as the blokes, and just because you had boobs didn’t mean you got out of pulling your weight.

And although the book focuses on the challenges Debbie and Sue faced growing up in the Shire, the underlying dramas of their parents was also an eye-opener.

But I wonder if things have changed that much in the teenage landscape of the new millennium.

Panel vans may have gone and, although feminism barged its way into the world so young women could have the opportunities that their grandmothers did not, I’m still uncertain whether the psyche of teenage girls has moved on from pleasing their man at any cost.

The most-recent depiction of the story in The Shire on TV is a prime example, though not the only one.

Everywhere there are messages to young girls that being the object of male fantasy is the only way to achieve success and acceptance.

Wearing – or not wearing in most cases – clothes that show off as much booty and booby as possible are de rigueur, even when the mercury slips into single figures.

The prevalence of “fitness” programs that promise a better bikini body in 12 weeks – and forget the basic messages of nutrition, or realistic sustainability of such drastic regimes – is increasing.

While there’s plenty of evidence to show young women now have greater expectations of what they can do with their lives, the statistics for teenage pregnancy are still one in four.

More young women are moving into higher education and taking on positions of power and responsibility, but they’re not the ones that are being celebrated in the media.

Rather, it’s the Jessica Simpsons or the “dramality” starlets that get the fleeting fame that young people – not just girls – think is going to get them the good life.

So, although the fashions may have changed and there are perhaps more girls out competing for a wave than in the 70s, when Puberty Blues shocked middle-class Australia, the underlying themes have not moved too far forward.

Even though the baby oil has been replaced with an SPF 30 sunblock, those skimpy crocheted bikinis still grace the sands along the coast, and instead of Chiko rolls, the girlfriends are standing by with a bottle of Evian water and a protein bar.

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Dragons in fight to bitter end

St George Illawarra will leave their finals fate in the hands of the NRL gods tonight when the Wests Tigers and Brisbane Broncos go about cementing their place in the top eight.

The Tigers and the Broncos can essentially rule the Dragons out of the play-offs if they secure wins over Canterbury and the Storm in their respective games.

Both sides are currently four points ahead of the Dragons on 26, and boast a convincing advantage three rounds out from the finals.

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The Dragons are also faced with the unenviable task of thwarting the finals aspirations of Newcastle, Canberra and the Gold Coast in order to qualify for the top bracket.

“There’s obviously only a slim chance for us to make the finals now and the boys have full respect for the Dragons fans, so all we can do is put our heads up,” Dragons winger Daniel Vidot said.

“We can’t go down after what happened [against the Tigers last weekend]; we’ve just got to keep pushing for those wins.

“It’s not Dragons’ footy to surrender; all the boys have been training hard this week and hopefully we can come out with the win.”

Arguably the biggest challenge awaiting the Dragons before the end of the regular season is North Queensland on Monday night.

The Dragons have won five of their past six games at WIN Stadium, but Vidot said that would stand for little unless they could get a quick jump on the Cowboys.

It was North Queensland who came out firing when the two teams last met in round nine, grabbing four tries in the opening 33 minutes.

It’s an element of the Dragons’ game Vidot admitted needed some refining.

“Against any side, the best thing is to start fast and that’s one thing we have to focus on,” he said.

“That’s something that we’ve been struggling with, to be honest, but we’ve been working hard on that and we showed that against the Storm.

“Hopefully we can do the same thing back to the Cowboys and give them a taste of their own medicine.

“The boys are looking forward to it and I’m sure we’ll all be ready to go come Monday night.”

The Dragons are also hoping to remedy their disturbing habit of dropping tries just before half-time.

The Storm, Roosters and Tigers have all managed to cross for four-pointers in the last two minutes of their opening halves against the Dragons recently.

“It’s something that we have to get out of our game,” Vidot said.

“We’re starting fast but we seem to let in a little sneaky try just before half-time, it’s what kills us.

“It gives us a bit of a kick in the guts.”

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Origin: Daley wants job, Stuart expected to help

Laurie DaleyThree-time series-winning captain Laurie Daley says whoever gets the vacant NSW State of Origin coaching job can expect help from Ricky Stuart to settle into the high-pressure job.

Stuart, who lost the past two interstate series in deciders – this year’s by one point – has stepped down as Blues coach to take over the reins of NRL strugglers Parramatta in 2013.

“Ricky has been fantastic and I know how passionate he is about NSW,” said Daley after confirming yesterday he had officially applied for the Origin job.

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“I think regardless of who is in charge, Ricky will still have a heavy influence in how the NSW team prepares.

“You would like to think if Ricky had the time, he would help in some way, shape or form because he’s done a massive job in closing the gap between the two states over the last two years.”

Daley’s rivals include Jim Dymock, Brad Fittler, Trent Barrett – who was Stuart’s assistant this year – and possibly NSW’s most successful Origin mentor, Phil Gould.

The Blues will be desperate to secure the right man to carry on Stuart’s work, with Queensland eyeing off an eighth straight series win next year.

“I’ve put my hand up and I’m certainly interested in the position,” Daley revealed at an All Stars ticket promotion in Brisbane.

“The NSW board are going through a process at the moment where they’re identifying candidates to find the best possible person to lead the state.”

Daley didn’t want to publicly talk up his claims to replace Stuart – his former Canberra, NSW and Australian teammate.

But he had no doubt he was ready to take the next step in his coaching career.

“I’ve been coaching representative sides now for five years and I think I could do a good job,” said the former Raiders great.

“The other people who’ve put their hands up are also very good candidates.

“We’ve come close the past few years under Ricky’s guidance and it’s one of those challenges where you feel you can make a difference.”

Daley has coached Country Origin since 2008 for two wins, a draw and two losses and the feedback from his players has been very positive.

He said he would not change too much of what Stuart had introduced to the Blues’ Origin preparations, but he would certainly introduce some of his own ideas and interpretations to the team. AAP

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Deadly centres loom in Test

Will Genia (left) discusses tactics with coach Robbie Deans. Picture: ANTHONY JOHNSON Adam Ashley-Cooper is more than happy to be on the wing against the All Blacks this weekend, predicting centres Rob Horne and Anthony Faingaa will have their hands full with the Sonny Bill Williams-Ma’a Nonu combination.

Williams and Nonu, who both weigh in at more than 100 kilograms, will line up at inside and outside-centre respectively for New Zealand in tomorrow’s Rugby Championship game at ANZ Stadium.

It will be only the third time they have started a Test as a centre pairing and just the second occasion after last year’s World Cup clash with Tonga that they will line up in the same configuration as Saturday.

Utility back Ashley-Cooper started 13 successive Tests in the centres in 2010 and 2011 but has been restored to the back three for the past four games.

Asked if tomorrow was a good game to be playing on the wing, Ashley-Cooper chuckled and replied “Yeah, well I’d certainly prefer to be out there than in the midfield to contain those two.

“I think across the board, it’s still going to be a very tough job for us.

“They have got a really deadly attacking back three in the likes of Israel Dagg, Hosea Gear and Cory Jane.

“They played some really good football throughout the Super 15 and throughout the Ireland series.

“We just have to work as a unit because, if we don’t, they are going to expose us.”

Ashley-Cooper doubted the All Blacks’ centre pairing would lead to any significant change of approach from what he rated the world’s best backline.

“Every Test team has their generic attacking shape,” Ashley-Cooper said.

“I think with Sonny and Ma’a, they are some of the best midfielders in the game. Obviously, the combination of those two is fairly new.

“But that certainly won’t deter from the fact they are a great midfield pair and great inside backs.

“For us, Anthony Faingaa and Rob Horne, they have got a real job on their hands Saturday night.”

He was convinced Australia had the offensive spark to threaten New Zealand, despite the omission of five-eighth Quade Cooper.

Ashley-Cooper said the Wallabies would look to get the ball in the hands of halfback Will Genia, inside-centre Faingaa and fullback Kurtley Beale as much as possible.

He revealed Australia had worked hard on their tactical kicking and kick-chase game after being exposed by New Zealand in those areas in last year’s World Cup semi-final.

“Our kicks have got to be a lot more contestable and our kick-chase has got to be better,” Ashley-Cooper said.

“We’ve done a lot of work on that over the last couple of weeks and hoping that we apply a lot of pressure in that area on Saturday night.” AAP

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Tight tussle for top spot

The battle for the Group Seven club championship has become a two-horse race between Gerringong and Albion Park-Oak Flats.

Gerringong (492 points) hold a slender lead over the Eagles (489) heading into this weekend’s final round.

Kiama (465) and Warilla (406) are the only other clubs to crack the 400 mark.

Albion Park-Oak Flats will be aiming for maximum points in their home games against Batemans Bay and rely on the Lions slipping up against Jamberoo at Kevin Walsh Oval.

Gerringong also have the try-scoring and point-scoring titles sewn up. Rixon Russell is the leading try-scorer with 25, while Joel Roberts is comfortably the top point-scorer.

The Lions are unbeaten in first grade – securing the minor premiership three weeks ago – and will be eager to keep their perfect record intact heading into the finals.

Meanwhile, Nowra-Bomaderry and Warilla are playing for fifth spot this weekend.

Both teams are on 18 points, though the Gorillas are ahead of the Jets on for-and-against differential.

The Jets know their season is over if they don’t beat Kiama tomorrow, while reigning premiers Warilla face wooden spooners Milton-Ulladulla at Mollymook Oval on Sunday.

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Matt Cooper hoping for change of luck

Matt CooperDragons centre Matt Cooper hopes that a recent run of injuries will hold a silver lining when he trots out for his 14th and final NRL season next year.

Cooper will return from a hamstring problem on Monday night to take on the Cowboys at WIN Stadium – in what will be only his 13th game this season because of a mixture of injuries.

In an ironic twist, the 33-year-old veteran said his recent run of ankle and hamstring problems had given his body more time to recover than usual.

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“That’s a positive way to look at it,” Cooper said. “Obviously, I’m getting older now [and] I need a couple more days off than most of the boys.

“This year I’ve had that opportunity and it’s given me a bit of rest, so hopefully I can come back next year a bit fresher.”

Cooper’s injury woes began back in the first week of the competition, during the Dragons’ opening-round win over Newcastle.

It was a frustrating blow for the former Test and Origin veteran, after recording “one of my best pre-seasons so far” in 2011.

“The year didn’t start well, getting injured in round one,” Cooper said.

“That put me out for a couple of weeks and then I came back too early and I was out for another couple of weeks.

“The injuries I’ve had, I wouldn’t call them old-age injuries.

“The body’s feeling pretty good other than the ankle and the hamstring. I’m keen to go around again and hopefully have a better year than what I’ve had this year.”

Cooper is hoping to put the year’s setbacks behind him when the Dragons host North Queensland.

He will have little opportunity to ease himself into the contest, with the guarantee of opposing playmaker Johnathan Thurston attacking the Dragons’ left side.

“They’ve got a great group of players there: Johnathan Thurston is going really well, they’ve got young guys going good, and they’ve got some old guys going good,” Cooper said.

“Their right side’s pretty lethal and they’re probably up there as one of the best sides in scoring tries this year. We’re going to have our hands full on Monday night, but we’re up for the challenge.”

Cooper will take part in the Dragons’ ball work session at WIN Stadium today ahead of the clash, after being sidelined for much of the week’s training.

“I’ve been running every second day, not with the team but rehab running,” he said. “I ran yesterday and hit top speed so that’s positive.

“We’ve got three more games to go here and hopefully I can put in a good performance in those three games.”

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Rohan’s got talent: living the dream after chemo

Singer Rohan Herring, pictured with fiancee Rebecca Petrovska, won four medals at a global talent quest. Picture: DAVE TEASEWhile all eyes have been on our sports stars, an Albion Park singer has flexed his vocal cords to win a swag of medals at the “Olympics of the Performing Arts”.

Rohan Herring has just returned from Hollywood, where he claimed a gold and three silver medals at The World Championships of Performing Arts where competitors go head-to-head in a range of competitions.

The 24-year-old auditioned for the international talent quest following a debilitating course of chemotherapy after he was diagnosed with Hodgkin’s lymphoma in May last year.

“I was doing weights at home when the bar hit my chest. I thought I’d cracked a rib so I got an X-ray and a 15-centimetre tumour was discovered on my chest,” he said.

“They couldn’t operate as it had wrapped around my left lung and heart so I underwent stage four chemotherapy, which fortunately was successful in getting rid of the cancer.

“After the treatment, my whole outlook on life changed. I thought, ‘Life’s too short, I’m going to do what I’ve always wanted to do, I’m not going to be afraid to just go for it’.”

Go for it he did, sending off his audition tape to the Australian talent scout who chose him out of thousands of hopefuls to be part of the 54-strong national squad to compete in the United States.

His rendition of Walking in Memphis won him gold in the male 18-24 vocal pop section, and he came second in his contemporary, R&B/soul/jazz and broadway sections.

“I’ve done a lot of competitions in the Illawarra and Sydney, plus I was a featured artist in Southern Stars in 2004 and 2005,” he said.

“I’ve also done shows at IPAC, including Joseph and the Amazing Technicolour Dreamcoat and The Pirates of Penzance and I’ve worked alongside my mentor Scott Radburn on many occasions.

“But I’ve never done anything on such an international scale before. I had to sing against 3652 competitors from 40 countries during 10 days of competition, and it was pretty surreal to win those medals.”

This is the 16th year of the global talent quest founded by Griff O’Neil, a former executive of the Miss Universe pageant.

In 2012 he recruited more than 75 scouts to scour the globe for outstanding talent, with more than 75,000 applicants auditioning for a spot in the July event.

“This is the only Olympic-style talent competition ever created and a rare opportunity for the privileged few selected to participate at this elite world event,” O’Neil said.

Herring is back home, polishing his medals and planning to record an album. Plus he has another reason to celebrate – while in the US he got engaged to his girlfriend Rebecca Petrovska.

“She’s been my rock,” he said. “Finally some good things are happening in my life.”

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Homeless given van-load of life’s essentials

Edna Wilson, Sharen Muller and Bob Kotic with food, clothing and bedding donated to St Vincent de Paul by Illawarra Credit Union staff and members.Picture: MELANIE RUSSELLIt is Illawarra Credit Union’s 40th birthday but members and staff have decided to celebrate by giving to others.

This week the credit union handed over a van-load of food, clothing and bedding to St Vincent de Paul to distribute to the homeless.

A steering committee of ICU staff has organised three charity drives for the 40th anniversary and members have quickly come on board with dozens of people busy knitting and donating items.

Initially ICU had planned to make one large donation at the end of the month but so many employees and members were concerned about the recent cold snap, everyone was keen to fast-track the delivery.

When St Vincent de Paul was contacted this week it wasted no time organising a van to pick up everything from beanies to socks and toiletries which had started to fill ICU’s head office foyer.

St Vinnie’s regional president Denis Walsh said it was an amazing collection in such a short time.

He said they would distribute the items to dozens of people in need over the coming days.

“Here in Wollongong there are probably 100 or so people who physically live on the streets on a permanent basis,” Mr Walsh said.

“But there are many others who live hand-to-mouth from cars to temporary accommodation who come under the definition of homeless as well.”

ICU charity committee chairwoman Sharen Muller said the response had been fantastic.

“One of the members of the Dapto branch knitted beanies and scarves and had her husband bring them in so we could not identify who she was,” she said.

Mrs Muller said the credit union had a history of involving its staff in community activities.

They have done everything from send books to Samoa to provide musical instruments for children at Para Meadows.

“Not only do our staff members feel like one big family but we encourage our members to feel exactly the same,” she said.

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Grandstands closed by a centimetre

The Shellharbour Sharks Rugby League Club is one of the most go-ahead sporting outfits in the region.

It’s home ground, named after local boy and Australian league great Ron Costello, is a showpiece and the club’s pride and joy.

It boasts outstanding facilities all built as part of a $1 million Federal Government grant that was also used to build two grandstands.

But now fans and visitors to the oval may never be able to use the grandstands, which have been closed during this season.

And it’s all over the matter of one centimetre, because the concrete steps, once used at the Sydney Aquatic Centre and then WIN Stadium, don’t comply with Australian safety standards.

The stands are off-limits until a resolution can be found, but if the club is forced to pull them down, that would be a case of safety restrictions gone mad.

If they were safe enough to be used at two of the biggest sporting venues in the state then they should be safe enough for a suburban sporting oval.

The club should be given the green light to get on and finish the project without any further delay.

And another thing …

Families who have loved ones in nursing homes will be reassured by the O’Farrell government’s ruling that all of the homes should be fitted with sprinkler systems.

The edict follows last year’s fire at Quakers Hill in Sydney where 11 elderly residents perished.

It will be a costly but worthwhile project and deserves the financial support of the federal government.

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What’s next in battle for Bulli ED?

12,000 people have signed the petition against downgrading Bulli Hospital services.Keira MP Ryan Park has vowed to keep fighting for a 24-hour emergency department at Bulli Hospital after raising the issue in NSW Parliament yesterday.

Mr Park formally tabled a petition with 12,000 signatures calling on the state government to urgently upgrade the hospital, and not downgrade the emergency department (ED).

Wollongong MP Noreen Hay and Macquarie Fields MP and opposition health spokesman Andrew McDonald supported the upgrade of Bulli Hospital.

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Mr McDonald claimed it was “ludicrous” to close the ED at night – when about 50 per cent of presentations to emergency departments typically occurred.

A group of 25 northern Illawarra residents – including members of the Save Bulli ED Group – also went to Sydney to hear the debate.

“It’s very disappointing that the government once again has refused to commit that Bulli emergency department will stay open 24/7,” Mr Park said after the debate.

“This is a service that needs additional funding, that needs upgrading. We are not asking for a service like Wollongong Hospital, we’re not asking for something we don’t already have – we’re just asking that it remains open 24/7 and that adequate funding be made available in the coming budget.

A draft report released by the Illawarra Shoalhaven Local Health District this week said the number of emergency department representations at Bulli appeared too low for “sustainable medical staffing and diagnostic capability 24 hours a day, seven days a week”.

However, Mr Park said there was a difference between people not turning up, and people not wanting to turn up.

“It’s clear when you order ambulances not to go to Bulli Hospital, when you constantly say on local media that there’s no emergency doctors available, when you haven’t put the capital upgrade into the facility that’s needed – that people are not going to go there,” he said.

“The fight doesn’t stop here – we will continue to lobby during the consultation period [which ends on August 31], not only for the benefit of northern Illawarra residents, but to take the pressure off Wollongong Hospital.”

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